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Des
Phillips was a rough diamond with a can-do attitude which
infected those around him with the same enthusiasm which drove
him during the last years of his life.His legacy to this community
and to the many people who suffer as he and his family did
from the affliction of serious and life-threatening illness,
is a safe and peaceful haven in which to enjoy the most precious
things in life.
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When
Des was first diagnosed with cancer he wanted to fly on the concorde
so decided he wouldn't go alone and took a group of sick children
on the journey of a lifetime around the world. He fought his illness
for many years and used his energy to drive the project that would
become Fiona Lodge. Eventually the right forces in the universe
aligned and Des was able to gather other like-minded people and
harness them to his cause.
A casual,
work-related meeting with Jim Johns and Rachael Sweeney-Johns turned
into a landmark event and soon others - Allan Broadhead from Rotary,
Maureen Law, Pat Jeffs with her practical on the ground fundraising
experience, Roz and Alan Ball and the motivator Graham McGillivray
- came to share the vision. Of course there were many others along
the way who fell under Des' spell and wherever he spoke to audiences
about his dream, the ranks of supporters swelled. Major sponsors
came on board and offered whatever Des asked them to provide.
Sadly
Des finally called it a day on January 2, 2000, after celebrating
Christmas with his family around him. A community mourned while
all the while trying to respect the Phillips family's right to grieve
him the most.
At
his funeral the eulogy was delivered by an old friend Ken Cush:
"I
believe we are all better people for meeting Des. He showed us how
a community can adopt a good idea, nurture it, develop it from the
abstract to the concrete and how, by working together, we can strengthen
bonds between those who are here today and those who will come in
the future. Fiona Lodge stands as a memorial to Fiona and to Des,
to the people of Bateman's Bay and surrounding areas. It represents
the love, humanity and caring a community such as this one can demonstrate."
Afterwards,
the Fiona Lodge committee struggled for a time but then gathered
their collective energy to continue the work and see the project
finished.
They're
reminded of Des' passion whenever they recall a special event or
view the video tapes of his speeches. Perhaps the most poignant
memory is of Des as a torchbearer in the Olympic Torch Relay. On
that day he rose out of the wheelchair which he'd been forced into
in the weeks leading up to the event and walked the section along
Beach Road with by far and away the most road-side supporters. They
ran alongside, cheered, unfurled banners, took pictures and called
out his name. But Des had all his attention focused on the road
ahead and with every fibre in his failing body was striding towards
his goal.
Story
kindly provided by the Bay Post
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